This is the “me” I am most familiar with. The loud person in the room telling bawdy jokes and stories.
Back then, when I looked in the mirror…
But now, I look at the first picture and I see someone completely different.
This is a collection of stories of how it changed.
I met Dorly on a writing assignment in 2010. Her serious photographer eyes scanned the room assessing the set up before I started the interviews. After the introductions, we chatted for a few minutes. “How do you want the ladies pictured?” she asked.
I answered with a non-committal shrug, “I’m not sure. Let’s see where the story takes us.” I could tell she was disappointed by my lack of direction, but my nature is to let the story unfold rather than pre-planning too many moves.
She chewed her lip trying to assess the situation. “Do you want me to pose the ladies for a waist up shot?”
I tried to explain my approach. “I typically work with picture books. In that world, I create the words and the illustrator completes the art independent of my input.” I motioned to the nervous ladies waiting to be interviewed. “Find their expressions as the story unfolds and that is where the art begins.”
While I gently waded through the interviews of heartfelt stories, Dorly moved effortlessly in the background. The two of us worked in tandem digging to the heart of the emotions without saying a word to each other. It was a great assignment.
Over the next year, I’d find Dorly and her camera at events around town. I’d ask “What stories are you telling?”
She’d revert to her current projects of whom, what or when or where. Dorly’s artistic story telling through photography was evolving to a sophisticated level, so it didn’t surprise me when she told me about her new portrait studio, Goldenlight Creative.
“It’s a place where I can bring out the best in my clients and empower them through their own image,” she explained.
That day, I promised myself that I would have my portrait captured by Dorly.
I had life altering changes on the verizon and the present seemed like a nuisance – not worthy of any special consideration. I didn’t realize that marking the transition would be so important.
In retrospect, I so wish I’d let Dorly capture me Before.